Comments on Lazy Pineapple: House wifely Husbands

Thanks Amit.....yeah as I said most men pretend to...

2010-01-27T22:47:38.541Z

Thanks Amit.....yeah as I said most men pretend to be really modern but at core they are still very traditional....and I believe that if a man decides to change the age old thought process he can surely do it....

Thanks Amit.....yeah as I said most men pretend to...

2009-03-27T08:15:00.000Z

Hi,Aquarius-here's a round of applause for A and S...

2009-03-27T02:25:00.000Z

Hi,Aquarius-here's a round of applause for A and S..and,a big smile at the conversation between them. Seriously, I don't think anyone should live under the ole misconception of man being the breadwinner and having rights to boss over his wife...though I do agree that that's what is visible in a majority of homes today and more so when there are visitors around...anyway,I guess it's a case of 'to each his or her own'..Thankfully I'm not one of those boss-men and that's what matters!:):)lovely post.

awww thanks Mihir....for your kind words :)

2009-03-26T18:19:00.000Z

awww thanks Mihir....for your kind words :)

Very sweet post. I liked the way you ended the pos...

2009-03-26T18:13:00.000Z

Very sweet post. I liked the way you ended the post - instead of deriding, you drove a point home. congratulations for having a great hubby like 'A' :)

Thanks Kautubh for your candor...yes those men are...

2009-03-26T14:31:00.000Z

Thanks Kautubh for your candor...yes those men are really very backward and I really despise such attitude..

I guess your attitude depends on who u are and not on the situation...(I was talking about after marriage and before marriage scenario)

Some people inspite of education are not educated.

Nice post! Changing names didn't help much...I kno...

2009-03-26T14:04:00.000Z

Nice post! Changing names didn't help much...I know them all! :)

But you know, I have had very serious arguments about this topic with a couple of friends (one from MBA and our Indian neighbour across border; the other my classmate since age 6)

They both felt - wife should not:
1. Be more educated than husband (or even equally)
2. earn more than husband
3. should always play second fiddle to husband

It was disgusting to hear this from such well-educated and modern men...who are extreme backward when it comes to their 'supremacy'

My schoolmate ultimately chose a girl less educated...and he made her leave her job when they migrated to the US (anyways, she was earning far less than him, as was his requirement)

But their last point was - You may have different views now, but ultimately you would change once you get married...so let's meet after you get married and then discuss...

well, I will not change an iota of my views...but they wouldn't agree...(shaadi se pehle sab aise bolate hain, baad mein badal jaate hain)

let's see....let me get married first :)

But reading this post - I appreciated both men a lot!!!

Kudos to A and S...you can send those to them, anonymously...to keep my privacy...hehe :)